I meet Ryan in the Phoenix airport on Thursday night. He had work stuff and flew from a different airport on an earlier flight. When I found him at baggage claim, he was wearing a suit, rockin' a pair of flip-flops, and typing away on his blackberry. That's my husband and he's awesome. My sister picked us up and we headed to downtown Scottsdale for a late dinner.
I slept in until 9:30am. The beauty of hotel rooms is that they are equipped with those super black out curtains. There was no light getting in that room--it was divine. Shannon and I headed to the mall. For six hours. That was divine too. I had no reason to rush--my husband was on the golf course until the sun went down and my kids were two states away. It was the strangest feeling. I couldn't get over it--I kept having to remind myself that I didn't have to hurry, I didn't have to get home to relieve someone.
I slept in again Saturday morning. Watched an overpriced movie in the room, went on a bike ride with Ryan before he went golfing, sat by the pool, had a facial, ate peanut M&M's, and might have had a Dr. Pepper. (I know I said I'm not a soda drinker anymore. I'm still not, but I was on vacation!).
Sunday consisted of a spring training baseball game. The Giants sucked it up and since they were losing so badly, we left early to hang out with some college friends. We love Joe and Jamie (and Easton and Will too!). Again, why do all the people who "get us" live so far away? It's starting to feel cruel. I need my people.
We flew home super early yesterday morning and I paid for it all day. Unlike my husband, I'm not accustomed to waking up at 4am. I was a mess. Thankfully, my mom hung out for a few hours while I took a short nap. I wouldn't have made it otherwise.
My mom. She's the best. She stayed with Lilly and Caleb all weekend and handled it like a pro. I guess she is a pro--she did raise four kids of her own while working full-time. They had pancakes every morning, spent hours at the park, had picnics on the trampoline, jumped on the couch cushions, and had toast in bed before bedtime. Lilly didn't ask about us once. And her birthday was a success because she had her Nana there.
I missed them. It took me a day and a half to stop worrying/wondering about them. I won't do that next time. But, it was my first time leaving both of them, and so I just wanted everything to go ok. And, I wanted to make sure my mom wasn't going insane. She wasn't.
We are back to our regular schedule. Except tonight...Lilly watched the new Twilight movie in bed with me. She loves the werewolves. And she likes when Bella dives in the water. And when Edward "cracks." She feel asleep all snuggled up to me, and when the movie was over, I picked her up and put her in her bed. It was a good night.
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When Devin is out of town Ave and I always have slumber parties in my bed. It's the cutest thing to have them fall asleep by you right?
I can't believe she likes Twilight so much!
Glad you guys had fun. I kept thinking about how it was on your first vacation post-Caleb. Sounds like a success!
(Did you know Devin's uncle runs Spring Training? He is a scout for the Mariners and lives there in Phoenix)
sounds like a lovely, dreamy weekend away! i know the feeling of reminding yourself you don't have to rush! it takes while to adjust to no kids since that is what we are used to all day, every day!
keep telling yourself i'm accustomed to waking up at 4am... maybe it'll work and you'll never have to remember why i'm up that early to begin with.
looking back...it was an okay trip. not new york. not chicago. but it was alright, I guess. Highlight was Joe and Jamie for me.
I'm dying for warm right now. I think we'll get it (in DC) this weekend. Phew. But I'm glad that you got it. And 6 hours at the mall? You didn't even say what you got. Please tell me something fabulous. I need to go shopping (nothing fits, awesome). But it's not the same.
Like-minded friends. Mine all move away, too. Really sucks, but hopefully they'll all live in cool places (i.e. not Utah) & we can visit. Sigh.
PS - I want to know about your Delaware plans. Delaware is kind of close to NYC. Don't you think you should swing by for a weekend? I do.
Oh man how wonderful! Three days of no poop to wipe! I think you captured that feeling of realizing you don't need to rush well, Jen. It always hits about when it is time to re-enter reality. As moms I think we need to find ways to get that feeling more frequently so that we can get to it quicker when we get a luxurious three days to ourselves.
Bob and I day dream about a Vegas getaway sans kids but don't see it happening any time soon. Let's just say those parents of yours are rare gems! Savor it!
And Bob would agree with RR those 4 am wake-ups that seem so effortless really aren't. They are a necessity. Total grind.
Welcome home!
Phoenix in the spring is one of my favorite things. We used to visit yearly.
So, our rental house in Vegas has black out shades that run between the window panes. Amazing!
I can't imagine shopping or doing ANYTHING without feeling rushed. It has been far too long since I took an adult-only vacation. It sounds so dreamy. The facial alone gave me goosebumps just thinking about it :) I'm so glad you got some pampering. You deserve it.
That sounds like the perfect trip!! I know, it is very surreal to get used to not having to get back to anything or hurry or be worried that whoever is watching your kids is dying because you've been gone six hours. But so nice!
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